Recently, I had serious thought about the preferences of human beings, whether it is selecting a home, living with wife, getting and living into crowd and enjoying traffic. A human mind has power to feel everything as enjoyable, even if it is matter of doing anything in public! whether it is good or bad,  something inside the home or outside  the home.

I like to post here issues which I call inside and outside.

Outside : When outside the home, Specially  in  metro cities, the tolerance of city(zens) is too much and extra ordinary! Metro citizens living with dumped wastes and damaged roads!  Nothing, Nothing bothers them, because mostly they travel by car and get directly  inside the home and then they never come out of home, doesn’t even bother what happens and what is to be done!  I surprise, most neighbours being very well settled in life, most of them still being millionaires, they don’t take any initiative to form a association, join hands or even support a cause to address those problems faced by self and their neighbours. Specially water drainage, damaged roads, dumping wastes on the road etc… One thing we all accustomed to blaming the administration and staying away from our own responsibility.

Inside :  Inside the home, the Human attitude is so worse that, they often try to influence into other life’s business. It is very usual to find newly married couples have misunderstandings and difference of opinion in daily life. Those issues sometime even lead to big issues between the parents of those couple and blood relatives.  I have noticed many such cases, where the elders i.e the parents never take positive step in controlling the difference of opinion between the married, specially till few years of married life. They even suggest and motivate one party till divorce, even motivating them to split the family and kids 🙁  You can recall many cases would have happened just next to you!!! The ego of parents and blood relatives overpowers the couple’s ego and further fuel the difference of opinion, sometime even lead them into permanent divorce! I often tell such cases and situations that, even they get divorced they will learn to accustom the dry life of being alone, even if they miss the partner. Ego plays it strong role as the human attitude is best in getting accustomed to any life. I suggest the  elders and people near around to involve and I initiate to calm down the difference of opinion, rathen than fuel  the problem further.  Mostly parents see and feel it as? Why a new comer should not listen and appreciate to elders ego! I have also noticed, It is very important to give Importance to the community elders and get them involved in calming down such difference of opinion! This technique plays many positive turnarounds and will help you not to dilute your funds as lawyer fees!.

As I said! at any situation human has a tendency to accustom to the present, so I feel, it is better to cool down the issue and see that the decisions does not affect each others life, as well the dependable ones like the children and elders! Do you understand? What I wanted to convey!

As well, I do hope you are too getting accustomed to my English and my blog posts! 🙂  Have a nice weekend!